Touch, Energy & Shared Awareness

TouchIn a quiet, warm room, your massage is enhanced with a full body, hot towel table bath, warm oil, shower and complete relaxation.

Shower and all facilities are available for your use. Sessions are untimed – stay as long as your schedule allows. Massage is always slow and relaxing. Simply an exchange and flow of positive energy.

This is a space to safely explore imagination.  All orientations, adult ages and genders are welcome.

Location and parking is easy and safe.

Within this blog are more detailed descriptions of the possibilities of Tantric Massage. Your curiosity is welcome.

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Colin’s Massage is a conscious, sensual,  full body experience.

It’s a flow of positive energy enjoyed in a warm and safe environment.

It’s a space where the clock and the phone can be turned off. Where the shower can be long. Where the direction is relaxed, genuine and personal.

This is unrushed time that allows a slow and mindful experience of heightened awareness. It’s time away from reality where relaxation and re-discovery are possible.

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Time & Tantra

Time & Tantra

Tantric practice encourages the idea of an ‘experience’ rather than a ‘session’, whether or not the time is in massage, ritual, discovery or any combination of Tantric practice.

Such experience is timeless – in that the experience tends to find its own unique pace and is not necessarily divided into hourly segments.

For this reason ‘clock watching’ is not part of Tantric experience. The idea is to provide an experience to relax the mind and body and thereby raise physical consciousness and heighten awareness. How this develops in any individual will be unique to the moment and certainly the benefit can be defeated by watching the clock too closely. That’s not to say that time constraints are not a reality to be respected at times. Just that experiences, short or long, need not necessarily be measured by the clock.

If Tantric practice requires anything from followers, those requirements, at least, are an open and curious mind and a generosity of spirit. So we always approach experiential time with generosity not measured by hours and minutes.

Sometimes the experience will last long – other times it maybe shorter.  Always, though, it will be a unique experience – never a ‘timed session’.  We don’t always have to make the massage ‘run on time’!



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To Touch or not to Touch?

Here’s a question that is often spoken – and often unspoken. ‘Is it OK to touch while I’m receiving touch?’

The guiding principle in massage is to work toward total relaxation of the mind and body. To the extent that uncertainty can occupy and stress the mind it is important to put this question to rest and thus rest the mind.

The short answer is ideally –  Yes – exchange of touch is entirely OK.

Massage can have the effect of seeming to magnify our natural energy. As the massage progresses and the mind starts to relax and wander the body will energize physically and some of that energy will begin to flow to the relaxed mind. It’s natural to want to reach out and transfer some of that energy. In doing so the energy delivered in the massage is further enhanced.

The fact is that energy is built as much by touching as by being touched. Without receiving touch or having the opportunity to touch we are deprived of a critical part of our experiential potential.

Of course it is entirely acceptable and possible to enjoy a full body massage without exploring reciprocal touch.

When we imagine traveling further down the Tantric path, however, it’s important to clear any imaginary barriers. Tantric practice and massage allows touch and touching, seeing and being seen, feeling and being felt. It is true that receiving touch to relax the mind also often extends to giving touch. Both experiences are the product of the same energy.

So, while so many full body massage techniques provide a wonderfully relaxing and stimulating experience, Tantric massage is one of the few that recognizes that complete relaxation requires the engagement of our potential to distribute energy as well as receive it.

Tantric massage will always acknowledge the power of interaction, looking to find the most complete and relaxed state of mind and body.

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Tantric massage can be one of the most long lasting and profoundly pleasurable experiences imaginable.

It’s an experience that can take the mind and body to new levels of heightened awareness. It’s one the most open forms of sensual consciousness that can be imagined.

Tantric massage can explore not only the external being but also the internal. Psychic as well as physical.

In a perfectly relaxed state, attention to the prostate gland can can help move the mind to enhanced levels of physical pleasure.

Although certainly not part of every massage experience, and then only ever approached and performed with clear prior understanding, prostate massage can open new vistas of experience.

In Tantric massage the erotic potential of the entire body can be stimulated and explored. There can be open discovery of what sensitivities are most pleasurably responsive to touch and attention.

Encouraging heightened physical and mental awareness through massage can enhance states of relaxation. Stress and suspicion can diminish and trust and openness replace fears and negative energy. Genital energy can begin to comfortably respond to careful touch and exploration around the anus – the zone so often neglected and uncelebrated and yet a region of  enormous  potential erotic pleasure.

Access to the prostate in this relaxed condition is easy and welcoming. Careful touch in this heightened state of sensual arousal can be felt throughout the entire body.

Reaching levels of relaxation that enable such experiences of physical and psychic pleasure are some of the most important experiences that Tantric massage can bring.

As always, it’s about the journey and not the destination, and prostate massage is not a destination. It can be a wonderful step along the way. Learning to enjoy the moment, and then again to move through the experience to new sensitivities, is a journey unique to Tantric and prostate massage. It’s a journey not to be rushed and to be taken many times.

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Couples & Tantra

Couples of all descriptions – opposite & same sex –  are more likely than ever before to participate in Tantric group workshops or enjoy massages together.

Even ‘up-market’ commercial spa businesses encourage couples to visit and enjoy massage together – but it’s not exactly Tantric. There will be strict rules and limits!!

Tantric massage, however, offers an opportunity to escape some of the limits and rules and, more completely, enjoy sharing the energy of guided touch – together.

I thought it would be interesting, here, to share some of the reasons I’ve been given, by visiting couples, for choosing to visit, together.

In no particular order of recall:

 I’ve often received calls from couples who are looking to celebrate a partner’s birthday, anniversary or some other significant event. Shared massage is a great way to celebrate.

In booking the time I ask for both people to be on the line to ensure that we’re all on the ‘same page’ etc. That this is a visit for a Tantric massage/experience and to establish comfort levels, expectations etc.

In these instances the goal has often been to make a present of a sensual and relaxing massage. It’s been that simple. The intent has been to enable the experience and fun of receiving a 4 Hands massage.

Then there have been those who have been researching and practicing some Tantric ritual and massage themselves and have decided to take things a little further.

In these instances we’ve worked as if it were a mini Tantric workshop, demonstrating how to enhance sensitivity, heighten awareness and progress Tantric ideas.

If these are categories of purpose then a third category would be those who mutually wish to enhance their sexual activity but somehow find that they aren’t ‘connecting’ often enough. I’ve been visited by couples who have been attending counseling and by those who haven’t sought professional help.

The turn to Tantric practice and massage has been to move beyond talk to more of a practical and hands-on experience.

While Tantric practice makes no claim to scientific or licensed professional equivalency, there is much value in choosing and incorporating hands-on experience where the comfort level allows.

Sometimes there has simply been a lack of understanding by each partner about how to meet the other’s expectations. Tantric practice and massage is an ideal way to demonstrate and practice, in a friendly, non threatening way, how the preferences of either partner can be met. And then practice makes perfect.

A fourth category has been people who are sensually exploring and wish to share their experiences.

While such couples have the choice to share their experiences with a female practitioner, and often do, there have been many instances where the preference has been for a male.

Tantric practice is gender neutral, and most ideas and objectives are properly common to both sexes. Nonetheless there are obviously differences in techniques when moving males or females into the states of heightened awareness. Shared Tantric practice recognizes this and can contribute positively to individual experiences and energies.

There are all sorts of nuances and variations to these categories, of course, and Tantric practice seeks to enhance and enable those nuances.

In Tantra, so long as the intentions are clear and consensual, Tantric practice offers much to any couple in maintaining the strength and excitement of the relationship.

So, if you read this as 50% of a couple and have always wondered how shared time works in Tantra and Tantric massage, feel most welcome and comfortable to call and talk about the possibilities. You’ll be in good company.


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Often a question is asked about the difference between Tantric massage, relaxing massage, full body massage, erotic massage, therapeutic massage etc.

In truth it is likely that there are as many definitions and answers as there are practitioners. Still, it’s a fair question.

Definitions and descriptions of massage ‘techniques’ e.g. Swedish, Lomi Lomi, Thai, Reiki etc. can easily be researched and described definitively but defining ‘relaxing’ in massage is more subjective.

Any relaxing massage experience is hopefully designed to be a pleasant experience, but what of the question defining the descriptions of – relaxing – erotic – Tantric. Isn’t it all the same?

Happily it is normal to experience a relaxing massage as an erotic experience even if it’s not ‘full body’. Simple touch, in the right circumstance can be incredibly and surprisingly erotic. Certainly a ‘full body’ relaxing massage, is likely to result in an erotic experience.

Tantric massage sessions tend to be longer than simple full body relaxation massage. Perhaps Tantric massage is best defined as a shared journey, where natural energy and reactions are mutually enjoyed by both receiver and giver.

There is always a ‘safe landing’ and the effects of the experience can last for many days afterwards.

In Tantric massage the experience is always about the journey without undue focus on the destination. Relaxation massage, erotic massage, full body massage, therapeutic massage, Tantric massage, combinations of all – it’s all good.

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