Colin's Massage is a sensual massage experience.

TouchIn a quiet, warm room, your massage is enhanced with a full body, hot towel table bath, warm oil, shower and complete relaxation.

Shower and all facilities are available for your use. Sessions are untimed – stay as long as your schedule allows. Massage is always slow and relaxing. Simply an exchange and flow of positive energy.

This is a space to safely explore imagination.  All orientations, adult ages and genders are welcome.

Location and parking is easy and safe.

Within this blog are more detailed descriptions of the possibilities of Tantric Massage. Your curiosity is welcome.

Contact Colin at: 250-984-7051 or email: co.lins@outlook.com.

Colin’s Massage is a conscious, sensual,  full body experience.

It’s a flow of positive energy enjoyed in a warm and safe environment.

It’s a space where the clock and the phone can be turned off. Where the shower can be long. Where the direction is relaxed, genuine and personal.

This is unrushed time that allows a slow and mindful experience of heightened awareness. It’s time away from reality where relaxation and re-discovery are possible.

To find out more  please do read further in the blog and call or email.

Tel: 250-984-7051 or email: co.lins@outlook.com

Colin 


Squeeze - CopyTantra, Fitness & Curiosity

This email has been on my list for inclusion for the past year. Now seems a good time to post it.
It’s an email from a reader who explains that after a year of regular relaxation massage he became increasingly motivated to improve his body image and state of mind. The content speaks for itself. I haven’t edited his remarks, which convey a sincere message.
He wonders whether his thoughts are ‘tantric enough’. I replied to him when he wrote, saying that his experiences were entirely reflective of Tantric possibilities.
Regaining a physical comfort level is very much a matter of continued realistic commitment and motivation.
Tantric practice can promote and combine a relaxed state of mind with a non-judgemental physical awareness, and can contribute to a progressive and lasting change in outlook and health.
Tantric practice makes no claims based on accepted scientific method but the following email does suggest that happy endings come in many disguises.
Colin
250-984-7051
Subject: Massage for fitness
Date: Sun, 5 Jan 2014 15:28:42 -0800
Hey Colin, You might like this for your web site.

Its the new year 2014 and I remembered my new year rezolutions a year ago. It was to lose some weight and try to get fitter.

I am a family man with grown kids out of the home and I had become a couch cabbage. I’d tried jogging and gyms and all sorts of things but nothing seemed to stick so I’d almost given up. I got talking to a casual friend who seemed in better shape than me and he said he’d been going for massage regularly for a couple of years and he’d found that it made him more active and also relaxed in himself at the same time.

I thought he might be joking with me like he was suggesting something wierd and he might be talking about ladies and happy endings but he wasn’t although he said so far the results had been happy.

He gave me the number of the guy that he’d been visitng for massage and I called it after feeling even more over stuffed from Christmas. I did mention my friend and that I was looking to get in better shape. It seemed a bit unlikely that massage could do what I wanted but my friend seemed to have become fitter and so maybe there was a secret. Also I was a bit nervous about getting massage from another guy but I was curious in my mind and I’ll admit to some mixed feelings.

Long story short I made an appointment and had a great complete massage. The masseur – I’ll skip his name – didn’t make the slightest personal remark although I told him that I was feeling overweight and tired. The time on the table was completely relaxing and I rebooked another visit.

I visited many times in the year and found that because I had to be undressed during the sessions which I began to enjoy I began to take more interest in my weight and as the sessions relaxed me I started to become more interested in diet and excercize.

I dropped more than 10 lbs. during the year. I think it was a result of the massage making me more conscious of myself and motivating me even though my massage buddy never made a remark. I get on well with him and I think I’ve found the same experience as my friend.

Not sure if this is tantric enough for you but it might also work for other guys who can’t find things that work. I won’t mention all of the massage techniques that I’ve enjoyed but they beat a lot of other excercize options. Also no problem with having a guy massaging me. I’ll just say that it’s really helped me relax and enjoy my curious side.

William

Ps: I’m in Calgary but expect to semi retire in a couple of years so maybe I’ll visit you.

Message of Thanks

Message of ThanksB

It’s time to thank the many, many readers of this blog who write emails describing their personal experiences with touch, massage, ritual and Tantra.

Often emails speak of personal voyages of self discovery. Often they speak of the successful actualization of thoughts and imaginings through the very personal interactions that Tantric practice can provide.

I try to respond to all communications and have had the pleasure of reading so many constructive thoughts and ideas.

In this process I’m often invited to post and share emails to this blog. So I’ve saved many communications with the intention of posting them. To those, whose emails and documents I have promised to share, I’m now hoping that more timely posting will be possible.

Here’s a beginning from a recent writer who provides thoughts that many might find familiar.

His experience, while personal to him, might be an inspiration to many who can imagine there are safe and comfortable experiences available.

Colin

 

From: xxxxxxx@gmail.com
Subject: Surprising and relaxing

Hello Colin,

Its unlikely I’ll ever get to visit you because I’m south of our shared border in Chicagoland. But I do read your blog and wish you would post more frequently.

I’ve become a tantric massage addict recently and reading the internet links I think I’m not alone and maybe my experiences will be helpful to others. I hope that you might publish my thoughts or I’ll have to start my own website.

I’m a retired professional gentleman in my late 60s. I’ve raised a family in the midwest and my wife and I have successfully downsized our lives. I can’t say that we have any special relationship problems but our interests have diverged over the years. I’d say we’re comfortable living companions but no longer sexual. I have always been respectful of my wife and family so have never had to hide serious secrets.

My wife suffers growing arthritis pain and I am normally in physically good shape. A year ago I slipped on some ice and damaged my back. It wasn’t serious and is now healed but at the time our doctor suggested I get some sports massage which would ease the discomfort.

I visited a massage practitioner and he introduced me to the world of deep tissue and sports massage. At first the visits were quite uncomfortable as he dealt with my not so serious injury. Then as I healed I began to find that I was enjoying the table time more than I was comfortable with. I had never sought massage treatments in my life and massage parlors would never have been on my radar. After the scheduled sports massages, though I found myself thinking about the touch of the practitioner and I must admit to becoming slightly confused about how much I would miss the visits when the session schedule ended and whether I could find something to replace it. The visits were always professional in nature. My wife is not strong enough to provide massage and I didn’t want to bother her with my thinking.

I took to the internet to learn more and after looking at the endless dubious massage services I found that the tantric term appeared quite frequently. I think thats when I might have first seen your site but there were others. In my searching I found a guy quite local to me who advertised massage for relaxation. My sports prescription had ended and although my back was mostly now ok I became quite focused on finding something to fix my need for touch. Parlors were out and there seemed no harm in contacting for a relaxation massage from a professional guy.

I made an appointment one cold afternoon at a suburban house. I was welcomed into a living room with a familiar massage table. The room seemed to be much less clinical than the room of my sports therapist. The space was certainly not threatening in any way and I’d become used to some of the massage protocols in my sports visits so I assumed something similar but less clinical. This is where my new experiences began I think.

I’ll refer to the practitioner as Brian. A very peaceful man in his 40s. After introducing himself and waiting for me to adjust to the room, take off my coat etc. I was invited to take a seat which was an armchair and explain my expectations while Brian listened. I remember telling him about my accident and massage treatment and I said that further relaxing massage might help as a self prescribed complete cure. I also told him that I found that my preference was for a male practitioner. As I talked I found myself beginning to anticipate the table time ahead in a way that hadn’t happened with my sports practitioner.

Brian said that he understood as much of the background as he needed to and that this would be a different experience because normally relaxation massages were more complete than sports or chiropractic. He invited me to use the shower, which I declined, and he left the room after telling me to undress and get onto the table. I put my clothes on the armchair and wrapped a towel, that Brian had left on the table, around me and climbed onto the table face down.

Brian soon returned although I couldn’t see him being face down. He turned on some quiet music and began a massage of my lower back and then to my shoulders. He used some oil and soon it began to occur to me that this was a very different experience from the sports massage. I found my mind wandering and into thoughts far from the reality of the day.

Brian didn’t remove the towel when he started on my legs but as he moved to my thighs the towel did get in the way. He asked if he could remove it to massage my butt and I happily murmured yes.

The massage continued as you might expect and I experienced it very sensually especially when I turned over, declining the towel as covering. Now I had a view of Brian, who was working shirtless. I found the combination of the touch of the massage and Brian’s appearance very arousing and although Brian did everything to slow me down the personal aspect of the massage was completed rather quickly.

Brian completed the massage for another 30 minutes I recall and I found myself completely relaxed and walking on air.

I used the shower and we talked for a while after I dressed. Since then I have returned to Brian quite frequently and feel more relaxed than I have for a long time.

Here’s the message you might like to take from this. I’ve found a safe and relaxing way to enjoy touch which is no longer available to me at home. I’ve been in good company and have made a new friend. Although I’ve always considered myself attracted to the opposite sex I’ve realized that I can completely enjoy the touch and company of a male in this context and I’ve come to appreciate the sensual and sexual potential of males in the same way that I’ve understood female attraction. I enjoy the company and the discretion and I will be enjoying my visits to Brian as far as I can see into the future.

It was a leap of faith for me to engage more of myself in this way and I would encourage any person who finds their ability to relax overwhelmed by routine, to find safe ways to enjoy whatever touch they can.

Hope this helps somebody.

John in Chicago

Researching the term Tantra and Tantric Massage will reveal more than 11 million references. It’s a word that excites curiosity and somehow suggests forbidden fruit. Thus it’s a term much abused. Also a term much defined.

Certainly Massage can be enjoyed as a Tantric experience. Here are a few thoughts to explain and heighten awareness.

Tantra can be defined as a term that describes an understanding of life.

Life is a manifestation of energy and we are individual bundles of energy.

All too often we are confused in experiencing the mix of energies within us, leading to an imbalance of thought and deed.

Tantric massage can offer a way to balance and enjoy intellectual and physical possibilities more reliably and pleasurably.

There are some energy forces in life that are often ignored. Ignoring these can create misunderstandings and stresses that can trap us.

Tantra is one of the few life concepts that clearly recognizes that erotic and sexual energy is the most powerful energy force within human kind. Without sexual energy – no more humans!!

And yet we find endless ways to distort, control, deny and subvert sexual energy. In doing so we create individual and social stresses than lead entirely to a misdirection of energy.

Tantra speaks of  7  Chakras – energy centers – in every human being. Recognizing and honoring those centers raises our consciousness and begins to bring some intellectual understanding to the forces that are within us.

Tantric practice can be imagined and experienced as a route to finding pleasure and comfort in oneself. In this way relaxation and energy balance can be achieved. Finding a comfort level internally is the first step to sharing energy and comfort with others.

In the beginning we accept that raising consciousness of pleasurable energy is necessary and desirable. Our normal state is often to deny that which is pleasurable in ourselves. This is a displacement of energy and leads to stress.

Massage and Tantric practice can help to allay fears and uncertainties.

It is also ideally gender and orientation neutral. The experiences are intense and can find energies that are latent or unexplored.

Whatever a person’s sexual orientation, there is a strong likelihood Tantric practice and massage will raise sexual consciousness. Tantric practice entirely understands this. The purpose is to find individual comfort levels and slowly develop and explore those energies. The most important energy to bring to the table is the energy of an open mind.

Tantric Massage and practice is a journey of self discovery. Sexual orientation and gender is of little consequence when the raising of any energy center is properly performed.

What is learned and experienced will remain throughout life and it is this enhancement of thought and pleasure that Tantric practice and massage can bring.

To talk more or to visit:

Contact Colin at: 250-984-7051

email:co.lins@outlook.com

To Touch or not to Touch?

Here’s a question that is often spoken – and often unspoken. ‘Is it OK to touch while I’m receiving touch?’

The guiding principle in massage is to work toward total relaxation of the mind and body. To the extent that uncertainty can occupy and stress the mind it is important to put this question to rest and thus rest the mind.

The short answer is ideally –  Yes – exchange of touch is entirely OK.

Massage can have the effect of seeming to magnify our natural energy. As the massage progresses and the mind starts to relax and wander the body will energize physically and some of that energy will begin to flow to the relaxed mind. It’s natural to want to reach out and transfer some of that energy. In doing so the energy delivered in the massage is further enhanced.

The fact is that energy is built as much by touching as by being touched. Without receiving touch or having the opportunity to touch we are deprived of a critical part of our experiential potential.

Of course it is entirely acceptable and possible to enjoy a full body massage without exploring reciprocal touch.

When we imagine traveling further down the Tantric path, however, it’s important to clear any imaginary barriers. Tantric practice and massage allows touch and touching, seeing and being seen, feeling and being felt. It is true that receiving touch to relax the mind also often extends to giving touch. Both experiences are the product of the same energy.

So, while so many full body massage techniques provide a wonderfully relaxing and stimulating experience, Tantric massage is one of the few that recognizes that complete relaxation requires the engagement of our potential to distribute energy as well as receive it.

Tantric massage will always acknowledge the power of interaction, looking to find the most complete and relaxed state of mind and body.

Email:  co.lins@outlook.com or subscribe to this site.

Tel: 250-984-7051

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Every massage experience is unique. Regardless of whether it’s a first time visit or one of many. Always it will be a voyage of physical discovery.

Often many questions will be buzzing in the head and sometimes butterflies fluttering in the stomach. I’m ready to answer any questions that I can, prior to any appointment – just call ahead.

Tel: 250-984-7051

Email: co.lins@outlook.com

 

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