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Couples & Massage

Couples & Tantra

Couples of all descriptions – opposite & same sex –  are more likely than ever before to participate in Tantric group workshops or enjoy massages together.

Even ‘up-market’ commercial spa businesses encourage couples to visit and enjoy massage together – but it’s not exactly Tantric. There will be strict rules and limits!!

Tantric massage, however, offers an opportunity to escape some of the limits and rules and, more completely, enjoy sharing the energy of guided touch – together.

It is interesting to consider some of the reasons for couples to enjoy massage experiences together.

In no particular order:

Looking to celebrate a partner’s birthday, anniversary or some other significant event. Shared massage can be a great way to celebrate. The goal can be to make a present of a sensual and relaxing massage.

 There are those who have been researching and practicing some Tantric ritual and massage themselves and have decided to take things a little further, as if it were a mini Tantric workshop, demonstrating how to enhance sensitivity, heighten awareness and progress Tantric ideas.

If these are categories of purpose then a third category would be those who mutually wish to enhance their personal activity but somehow find that they aren’t ‘connecting’ often enough.

The turn to Tantric practice and massage has been to move beyond talk to more of a practical and hands-on experience.

While Tantric practice makes no claim to scientific or licensed professional equivalency, there is much value in choosing and incorporating hands-on experience where the comfort level allows.

Sometimes couples seek an enhanced understanding of how to meet their partner’s expectations. Tantric practice and massage can demonstrate and practice, in a friendly, non threatening way, how the preferences of either partner can be met. And then practice makes perfect.

Other couples seek simply to explore, sensually, and wish to share their experiences.

Tantric practice is gender neutral, and most ideas and objectives are properly common to both sexes. Nonetheless there are obviously differences in techniques when moving males or females into the states of heightened awareness. Shared Tantric practice recognizes this and can contribute positively to individual experiences and energies.

There are all sorts of nuances and variations to these categories, of course, and Tantric practice seeks to enhance and enable those nuances.

In Tantra, so long as the intentions are clear and consensual, Tantric practice can offer much to any couple in maintaining the strength and excitement of the relationship.

So, if you read this as 50% of a couple and have always wondered how shared time works in Tantra and Tantric massage, feel most welcome and comfortable to call and talk about the possibilities. You’ll be in good company.

Colin

Tel: 250-984-7051                      Email: co.lins@outlook.com

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Prostate Massage

Tantric massage can be one of the most long lasting and profoundly pleasurable experiences imaginable.

It’s an experience that can take the mind and body to new levels of heightened awareness. It’s one the most open forms of sensual consciousness that can be imagined.

Tantric massage can explore not only the external being but also the internal. Psychic as well as physical.

In a perfectly relaxed state, attention to the prostate gland can can help move the mind to enhanced levels of physical pleasure.

Although certainly not part of every massage experience, and then only ever approached and performed with clear prior understanding, prostate massage can open new vistas of experience.

In Tantric massage the erotic potential of the entire body can be stimulated and explored. There can be open discovery of what sensitivities are most pleasurably responsive to touch and attention.

Encouraging heightened physical and mental awareness through massage can enhance states of relaxation. Stress and suspicion can diminish and trust and openness replace fears and negative energy. Genital energy can begin to comfortably respond to careful touch and exploration around the anus – the zone so often neglected and uncelebrated and yet a region of  enormous  potential erotic pleasure.

Access to the prostate in this relaxed condition is easy and welcoming. Careful touch in this heightened state of sensual arousal can be felt throughout the entire body.

Reaching levels of relaxation that enable such experiences of physical and psychic pleasure are some of the most important experiences that Tantric massage can bring.

As always, it’s about the journey and not the destination, and prostate massage is not a destination. It can be a wonderful step along the way. Learning to enjoy the moment, and then again to move through the experience to new sensitivities, is a journey unique to Tantric and prostate massage. It’s a journey not to be rushed and to be taken many times.

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