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Mindful Massage & Sensual Escape

Tantric massage is a conscious, sensual,  full body experience.

It’s a flow of positive energy enjoyed in a warm and safe environment.

It’s a space where the clock and the phone can be turned off. Where the shower can be long. Where the direction is relaxed, genuine and personal.

This is unrushed time that allows a slow and mindful experience of heightened awareness. It’s time away from reality where relaxation and re-discovery are possible.

To find out more  please do read further in the blog and call or email.

Tel: 250-984-7051 or email: co.lins@outlook.com

Colin 

Contact Colin – 250-984-7051

TouchIn a quiet, warm room, your massage is enhanced with a full body, hot towel table bath, warm oil, shower and complete relaxation.

Shower and all facilities are available and sessions are untimed – stay as long as your schedule allows. Massage is always slow and relaxing. Simply an exchange and flow of positive energy.

This is a space to safely explore imagination.  All orientations, adult ages and genders are welcome.

Location and parking is easy and safe.

Within this blog are more detailed descriptions of the possibilities of Tantric Massage. Many postings – but not all  –  require a password to read, so do scroll to the end. Simply email the title to co.lins@outlook.com and I’ll send the password. Your curiosity is welcome.

Contact Colin at: 250-984-7051 or email: co.lins@outlook.com

The Erogenous Zone

The Erogenous Zone

Tantric massage is much more than simply physical massage.

Genuinely delivered, the massage experience can touch the mind as much as the body.

There are many posts in this blog which describe aspects of Tantric practice but perhaps the simplest explanation of Tantra touches on the pleasant distribution of the potential energy contained in the mind and body.

For those exploring Tantric massage there is an experience of mental and physical relaxation. It’s possible to simply submit to the relief and energy movement that full body Tantric touch brings, allowing the mind and body to wander.

Properly performed, Tantric massage is an open ended, timeless experience, raising the conscious and subconscious sensual potential of the entire being.

There is nothing wrong and everything right about enabling and allowing such experience.

But Tantra can take us even further into the land of sensuality.

Much of our potential energy begins in the mind. Imagination is the beginning and the motivation for every experience that we create for ourselves. Tantric practice can help free the mind and enable enjoyment and further the energy that is often buried in the subconscious mind.

There is more than one way to enjoy Tantric time and massage. Either passively, which can be wonderfully relaxing, or actively – consciously engaging and stimulating the imagination as well as the physical being.

It’s the active option that is the subject of this note.

It’s no secret that the human body enjoys the sensation of friendly touch. Tantric massage enhances the experience of positive touch. Passively enjoying touch to sensitive body regions can provide sexual and sensual stimulation and we can enjoy these sensations without thought or effort.

But the body has the potential to develop many more erogenous zones than simply the obvious ones.

This is where imaginative energy and conscious and heightened awareness can serve.

By deliberately becoming mindful about the touch being received it’s possible to discover that the entire body is a potential erogenous and erotic zone. This discovery and practice can have fundamental impacts on day to day life.

The mind can connect with the energies of the impulses of the physical body more readily, and the imagination can be controlled and directed positively and holistically.

The imagination can begin to associate personal space and environment more closely with the potential for positive physical and mental experience.

Positive potential can be found in experiences that formerly may have been ignored or found potentially negative. Value can begin to be found in sights and feelings that have appeared neutral or negative in the past.

The most powerful energy force within us is sexual energy and thus Tantra, with its emphasis on mindful sensuality, is the ideal route to opening the mind and expanding sexual imagination.

So, when you decide to treat yourself to a sensual Tantric massage, it’s entirely possible to take from the experience, not only some time of physical relaxation, but also the beginnings of a pleasant and permanent change in mental and physical consciousness.

In other words the experience does not have to end at the door on the way out.

Colin

Tel:  250-984-7051                             Email: co.lins@outlook.com

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Julia’s Conversations – Happy Ending

Julia’s Conversations

After posting the description of the massage session ‘Happy Ending’ I immediately heard from Julia who sent me her updated information.

She asked whether I would include some of it here. She’s active with a conversation service which seems such a good outlet and idea.

If you wish to be in contact with her just use her email as she describes.

Feel welcome to check with me if you have any questions.

Colin

 

‘Hi,

I’m Julia. I’m the Spa therapist in the ‘Happy Ending’ posting in this blog about massage.

That visit happened awhile ago before I moved on from the Hotel Spa, although I still hang out with Stephen and friends.

I’m working independently as a therapist now and Colin, of this blog, said that he would post this ‘Advert’ for me.

I really enjoy my work and also talking to my clients and sharing their experiences and desires.

This year I started a service to exchange emails and have written conversations in real time, with them.

It’s a chance for a person to speak their thoughts and experiences safely and anonymously and get some empathy, support and feedback from somebody who has experience of the personal and erotic side of life. The ‘Happy Ending’ description on this blog will begin to tell about me so you’ll understand, already, something about me.

If you’d like to learn more about having conversations with me just email me:

Yourconversationwithme@gmail.com

I’ll reply with more details and answers to any questions you have.

Your Spa friend,

Julia

 

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A Happy Ending

Happy Ending….

‘…..I looked around, enjoying being reminded that we were all naked and having fun, combined with some useful intent. I took a deep breath again and allowed my arousal to be free and settled on my back on the table. Julia propped my head with a pillow and I prepared for what I imagined would be the more complicated part of interpreting the spa rules.’

My ‘flip’, as Julia professionally referred to it, was text-book, apparently. The spa had rules in place to anticipate my aroused condition and Julia talked through them for my information and for her practice. There couldn’t be any manual stimulation. Jeffery was going to give her some tips how she might expand her personal practice within the rules. At the time not much of this plan mattered to me.

The spa protocol was to pay no attention to the aroused member and make small talk while quickly draping the naked client.

Julia completed the draping protocol effectively and completely. I felt the draft of the sheet against my skin and its settling onto my torso and legs. My erection was maintaining and I also felt the weight of the sheet against the tip of my cock.

I knew I was leaking evidence of my arousal and that the fluid must be marking the spot on the sheet – the truest of wet spots.

In the context of this massage among friends I guessed this didn’t matter but as a characteristic of spa experience Jeffery brought it to Julia’s attention. She said that such obvious discharge happened often with aroused male clients and that she regarded it as a signal to be respectful of the client’s immediate sensitivities. Her understatement didn’t go unnoticed by any of us.

She progressed the massage over the sheet, briefly manipulating from my shoulders to my feet. The views that I had of her naked form combined with the sensations of touch did nothing to diminish my arousal. I could feel the fluid release absorbing on the sheet and continuing to shift against the tip of my cock.

Julia returned her attention to my chest and torso, having finished her brief trip to my legs and feet. She pulled back the sheet far enough to reveal my chest, torso and belly but still covering my pubic and genital region. My cock now supported an extra layer of sheet as it was doubled up and further covered my lower half. Happily I remained solid enough to support the extra weight – not difficult with my, by now, almost permanent erection.

My uncovering revealed the unusual creature tattoo inked close to my nipple. Stephen had described my tattoos but this was her first opportunity to examine this one. She said that spa protocol allowed comment and conversation about any revealed body modification and she said that it seemed a happy creature living a fascinating life on my chest, sharing the pleasures of my nipple. The attention moved my erection, and as I looked up at Julia’s naked breasts my world seemed entirely comprised of nipples!

Julia began massage to my chest, using a combination of light and deeper touch. By now my nipples seemed to be alight with energy that was traveling directly to my cock. As her hands and movements progressed down my body toward my belly I found myself tempted to reach out to touch Julia but she was skilled in using her movement to avoid my reach.

She spoke a commentary, intended mostly for Jeffery, that described what she was doing and how, at this point she felt quite sympathetic towards her very often, very aroused clients.

Jeffery told her to continue as she was for the time being.

Having completed a tour of my torso and belly – dangerously close to my solid, sheet covered cock, she moved out of my field of vision, toward my feet and uncovered my legs and thighs as far as my upper thigh. My cock and genital area remained sheeted.

I enjoyed the massage of my feet and legs exquisitely, and as progress was made toward my thighs.

Julia had been using a light oil throughout and her hands moved confidently and carefully over my exposed skin and muscle. I’m cutting short most of the massage experience description. Be certain it is one of the most memorable hours of my life.

Arrival at my upper thighs caused Julia to stop and ask Jeffery, now, for guidance. Her questions were about remaining within the spa protocols and at the same time providing true relief for clients who may be ‘stressed’ – as I clearly was!

Jeffery said that he had developed approaches which pleased everybody. He reminded that she had used the ‘thigh grip’ in the first stage of the massage when I was face down. He advised her to use this approach again. She pushed one side of the covering sheet further over my genitals, exposing entirely my upper thigh and threaded her arm around my thigh. I felt her upper arm against my genitals as she increased the squeeze to my thigh. In releasing now she was able to manipulate my thigh with her fingers, carefully reaching deeply into my crotch but without deliberate contact with my cock or balls. My erection remained covered but could hardly have been unseen.

Julia moved to the other side and repeated the process once my thigh had been exposed. The sheet now covered only my genital area and I felt the rest of it resting between my legs and on the table below my balls.

At this point Julia appealed to Jeffery for advice. How could she deal with this clear need to complete the touch and remain within the rules? I was certainly as desperate for an answer as much as she was – maybe she was more curious than desperate.

Jeffery said that the spa rules allowed clients to be naked in the process of getting on or off the table prior to being draped or finishing and discarding the sheet. Further that being undraped while face down was permitted.

So technically I could remove the final cover of the sheet myself. Not all spas followed this protocol but his had that flexibility. So Julia could tell me that I could discard the sheet now, prior to stepping down from the table.

Jeffery said that there was no rule that Julia could not converse further with me, uncovered, as I prepared to leave the table. She could enquire how I felt – loose, tight, relaxed etc. and she could engage the client’s answers.

During this closing conversation there was no rule that could compel her not to look at the genital area, Jeffery said. As he advised her I remained exposed, naked and hopelessly hard.

Stephen was obviously enjoying my situation, remarking, with fake sympathy, that he was sure that Jeffery would think of something.

Now Jeffery said that we entered into a grey area but one which had worked, seemingly, within their protocol. He noted that Julia might have left her oil bottle by the other side of the table. She hadn’t this time but at their spa there was a small table, apparently, beside the massage table upon which the practitioner could leave oils, etc. while working. It was OK for Julia to reach across to retrieve a bottle or other item rather than walking around the table.

Jeffery suggested she reach across me to collect an item from this small table, excusing herself as she did so. It might be, he said, that her body makes contact with a client’s genital area – even an erect penis. It might be that in extending her reach across the client she loses balance or has to extend further.

At this point she can apologize and recover herself or remain extended across him, according to whether the client seems comfortable or particularly uncomfortable with the circumstance.

In the situations where there is no discomfort indicated – always in his experience – the body contact may well result in rapid ejaculation. In such an event she can assist the client, if he desires, in wiping the ejaculation etc.

Jeffery said that although the procedure seemed contrived it remained with their rules that practitioners should not use hands to massage for sensual genital stimulation. He was always hopeful that one day the rules would become more sensible. In the meantime this worked for him.

So Julia reached across me for an imaginary oil bottle. I felt her smooth torso against my cock and my precum lubricating the contact. I realized that this time, in our private setting, she was naked but that normally her midriff would be bare anyway.

She went a little further than she might in the spa setting and squirmed a little in her encouragement of my arousal.

I almost immediately felt the most intense, involuntary climax and ejaculation onto Julia’s body. She felt it too and made no attempt to move as I felt the fluid spread between our bodies.

Julia said afterwards that the experience was extremely intense for her, also.

Of course she had to separate from me and stood up to reveal an area of cum on my belly and on her torso.

Jeffery and Stephen humorously applauded and congratulated both of us. I offered the shower but Julia said that we could wait. Just enjoy the sensation of completion.

I moved myself off the table and Stephen, Jeffery and Julia seated themselves on the floor where I joined them.

Both Jeffery and Stephen were as aroused as I had been. Julia joked that there was no way she was repeating the massage for them, if that’s what they were hoping – they weren’t of course – but that Jeffery’s guidance was everything that she needed.

We continued with an increasingly intimate conversation and Jeffery shared many of his thoughts about his enjoyment of X dressing and sensuality. I learned so much.

Julia and Jeffery were very complimentary about my tattoos – now completely visible – and we talked body modification.

Stephen and Jeffery certainly deserved relief, and in front of Julia and myself, masturbated each other to climax. It was very erotic and an event which I hope to recall more completely one day.

After this display of mutual masturbation Julia said that she’d found the time no less arousing than we had and that sometimes it’s forgotten that women are just as stimulated, so she was going to complete her climax as well. She said that she would enjoy it if we watched her and opened her legs to reveal her own arousal. Given that she was so perfectly shaved her entire area was beautifully visible. Jeffery massaged her feet as we sat on the floor – he knew her body – as she digitally stimulated herself to climax. A great ending.

Stephen has told me that Julia and Jeffery are continuing to build a strong client base at the hotel spa – no complaints. I’m hoping to make a visit myself soon and that we’ll all get together again soon.

I’m still at the apartment with Stephen a few doors down. We’re having so much fun and have become great friends, sharing so many new experiences, now.

 More another time.

 

 

 

 

Safe Space

Safe Space

The search for safe and intimate comfort can be challenging.

The possibilities and choices to find such comfort can seem to be frustratingly limited.

The occasional enjoyment of bodywork and massage is satisfying but often all too brief.

As acceptance grows that, as individuals, our sexual and sensual identities are broad and legitimate, so, also, do the opportunities to enjoy and actualize seem frustratingly narrow.

While the virtual world of internet and keyboard driven images can help in beginning to focus preferences, it’s not an environment that makes it easy to discretely  and safely enjoy one’s newly discovered ‘self’ in the physical world.

The virtual world simply does not reciprocate the energy pounded into the keyboard.

This year, more than ever, opportunities have emerged that have allowed visitors, here, to take the time, safely and openly, to explore and enjoy aspects of their sensuality that are, all too often, difficult to express in less open contexts.

The chance to laze and gaze in a shared and non-judgmental environment, where no clock is ticking, is difficult to discover.

While it shouldn’t be so difficult to find comfortable space to share thoughts and preferences, when sensual self discovery is the goal the choices can be very limited.

I’ve heard this frequently over the past couple of years from wonderful visitors who have returned to share and spend extended overnight visits.

Such visits have provided a chance to temporarily exclude the outside world and often to actualize thoughts and newly discovered preferences – to build confidence and bring new peace of mind.

While this will always be a place of timeless massage it can also be a place of endless sensuality, self expression, company and comfort.

Beats any impersonal hotel, airbnb or website.

Just email or call to enjoy.

Colin

Tel:    250-984-7051

Email: co.lins@outlook.com

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The Deepest Massage & Touch Experiences

THE DEEPEST MASSAGE & TOUCH EXPERIENCES –

 Always are Voyages of Arousal and Discovery.

The very personal experience of enjoying Tantric Touch and Massage is always enhanced when combined with a desire to explore existing boundaries and comfort levels.

A safe and reassuring way to begin is to explore past experiences and imagine future experiences – in other words:  Heightening Personal Sensual Awareness.

With this objective a protected questionnaire follows this posting. The questions are explicit and your answers will be self revealing – shared only with yourself.

To view the questionnaire, simply email a request for the password.

Colin

Tel: 250-984-7051

Email: co.lins@outlook.com

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