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New Year Resolution:

Make your Fantasies your Realities – It’s never too late!

Explore the pleasures of Mind and Body – and break all barriers of discrimination.

Contact Colin – 250-984-7051

TouchIn a quiet, warm room, your massage is enhanced with a full body, hot towel table bath, warm oil, shower and complete relaxation.

Shower and all facilities are available and sessions are untimed – stay as long as your schedule allows. Massage is always slow and relaxing. Simply an exchange and flow of positive energy.

This is a space to safely explore imagination.  All orientations, adult ages and genders are welcome.

Location and parking is easy and safe.

Within this blog are more detailed descriptions of the possibilities of Tantric Massage. Many postings – but not all  –  require a password to read, so do scroll to the end. Simply email the title to and I’ll send the password. Your curiosity is welcome.

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A Happy Ending

Happy Ending….

‘…..I looked around, enjoying being reminded that we were all naked and having fun, combined with some useful intent. I took a deep breath again and allowed my arousal to be free and settled on my back on the table. Julia propped my head with a pillow and I prepared for what I imagined would be the more complicated part of interpreting the spa rules.’

My ‘flip’, as Julia professionally referred to it, was text-book, apparently. The spa had rules in place to anticipate my aroused condition and Julia talked through them for my information and for her practice. There couldn’t be any manual stimulation. Jeffery was going to give her some tips how she might expand her personal practice within the rules. At the time not much of this plan mattered to me.

The spa protocol was to pay no attention to the aroused member and make small talk while quickly draping the naked client.

Julia completed the draping protocol effectively and completely. I felt the draft of the sheet against my skin and its settling onto my torso and legs. My erection was maintaining and I also felt the weight of the sheet against the tip of my cock.

I knew I was leaking evidence of my arousal and that the fluid must be marking the spot on the sheet – the truest of wet spots.

In the context of this massage among friends I guessed this didn’t matter but as a characteristic of spa experience Jeffery brought it to Julia’s attention. She said that such obvious discharge happened often with aroused male clients and that she regarded it as a signal to be respectful of the client’s immediate sensitivities. Her understatement didn’t go unnoticed by any of us.

She progressed the massage over the sheet, briefly manipulating from my shoulders to my feet. The views that I had of her naked form combined with the sensations of touch did nothing to diminish my arousal. I could feel the fluid release absorbing on the sheet and continuing to shift against the tip of my cock.

Julia returned her attention to my chest and torso, having finished her brief trip to my legs and feet. She pulled back the sheet far enough to reveal my chest, torso and belly but still covering my pubic and genital region. My cock now supported an extra layer of sheet as it was doubled up and further covered my lower half. Happily I remained solid enough to support the extra weight – not difficult with my, by now, almost permanent erection.

My uncovering revealed the unusual creature tattoo inked close to my nipple. Stephen had described my tattoos but this was her first opportunity to examine this one. She said that spa protocol allowed comment and conversation about any revealed body modification and she said that it seemed a happy creature living a fascinating life on my chest, sharing the pleasures of my nipple. The attention moved my erection, and as I looked up at Julia’s naked breasts my world seemed entirely comprised of nipples!

Julia began massage to my chest, using a combination of light and deeper touch. By now my nipples seemed to be alight with energy that was traveling directly to my cock. As her hands and movements progressed down my body toward my belly I found myself tempted to reach out to touch Julia but she was skilled in using her movement to avoid my reach.

She spoke a commentary, intended mostly for Jeffery, that described what she was doing and how, at this point she felt quite sympathetic towards her very often, very aroused clients.

Jeffery told her to continue as she was for the time being.

Having completed a tour of my torso and belly – dangerously close to my solid, sheet covered cock, she moved out of my field of vision, toward my feet and uncovered my legs and thighs as far as my upper thigh. My cock and genital area remained sheeted.

I enjoyed the massage of my feet and legs exquisitely, and as progress was made toward my thighs.

Julia had been using a light oil throughout and her hands moved confidently and carefully over my exposed skin and muscle. I’m cutting short most of the massage experience description. Be certain it is one of the most memorable hours of my life.

Arrival at my upper thighs caused Julia to stop and ask Jeffery, now, for guidance. Her questions were about remaining within the spa protocols and at the same time providing true relief for clients who may be ‘stressed’ – as I clearly was!

Jeffery said that he had developed approaches which pleased everybody. He reminded that she had used the ‘thigh grip’ in the first stage of the massage when I was face down. He advised her to use this approach again. She pushed one side of the covering sheet further over my genitals, exposing entirely my upper thigh and threaded her arm around my thigh. I felt her upper arm against my genitals as she increased the squeeze to my thigh. In releasing now she was able to manipulate my thigh with her fingers, carefully reaching deeply into my crotch but without deliberate contact with my cock or balls. My erection remained covered but could hardly have been unseen.

Julia moved to the other side and repeated the process once my thigh had been exposed. The sheet now covered only my genital area and I felt the rest of it resting between my legs and on the table below my balls.

At this point Julia appealed to Jeffery for advice. How could she deal with this clear need to complete the touch and remain within the rules? I was certainly as desperate for an answer as much as she was – maybe she was more curious than desperate.

Jeffery said that the spa rules allowed clients to be naked in the process of getting on or off the table prior to being draped or finishing and discarding the sheet. Further that being undraped while face down was permitted.

So technically I could remove the final cover of the sheet myself. Not all spas followed this protocol but his had that flexibility. So Julia could tell me that I could discard the sheet now, prior to stepping down from the table.

Jeffery said that there was no rule that Julia could not converse further with me, uncovered, as I prepared to leave the table. She could enquire how I felt – loose, tight, relaxed etc. and she could engage the client’s answers.

During this closing conversation there was no rule that could compel her not to look at the genital area, Jeffery said. As he advised her I remained exposed, naked and hopelessly hard.

Stephen was obviously enjoying my situation, remarking, with fake sympathy, that he was sure that Jeffery would think of something.

Now Jeffery said that we entered into a grey area but one which had worked, seemingly, within their protocol. He noted that Julia might have left her oil bottle by the other side of the table. She hadn’t this time but at their spa there was a small table, apparently, beside the massage table upon which the practitioner could leave oils, etc. while working. It was OK for Julia to reach across to retrieve a bottle or other item rather than walking around the table.

Jeffery suggested she reach across me to collect an item from this small table, excusing herself as she did so. It might be, he said, that her body makes contact with a client’s genital area – even an erect penis. It might be that in extending her reach across the client she loses balance or has to extend further.

At this point she can apologize and recover herself or remain extended across him, according to whether the client seems comfortable or particularly uncomfortable with the circumstance.

In the situations where there is no discomfort indicated – always in his experience – the body contact may well result in rapid ejaculation. In such an event she can assist the client, if he desires, in wiping the ejaculation etc.

Jeffery said that although the procedure seemed contrived it remained with their rules that practitioners should not use hands to massage for sensual genital stimulation. He was always hopeful that one day the rules would become more sensible. In the meantime this worked for him.

So Julia reached across me for an imaginary oil bottle. I felt her smooth torso against my cock and my precum lubricating the contact. I realized that this time, in our private setting, she was naked but that normally her midriff would be bare anyway.

She went a little further than she might in the spa setting and squirmed a little in her encouragement of my arousal.

I almost immediately felt the most intense, involuntary climax and ejaculation onto Julia’s body. She felt it too and made no attempt to move as I felt the fluid spread between our bodies.

Julia said afterwards that the experience was extremely intense for her, also.

Of course she had to separate from me and stood up to reveal an area of cum on my belly and on her torso.

Jeffery and Stephen humorously applauded and congratulated both of us. I offered the shower but Julia said that we could wait. Just enjoy the sensation of completion.

I moved myself off the table and Stephen, Jeffery and Julia seated themselves on the floor where I joined them.

Both Jeffery and Stephen were as aroused as I had been. Julia joked that there was no way she was repeating the massage for them, if that’s what they were hoping – they weren’t of course – but that Jeffery’s guidance was everything that she needed.

We continued with an increasingly intimate conversation and Jeffery shared many of his thoughts about his enjoyment of X dressing and sensuality. I learned so much.

Julia and Jeffery were very complimentary about my tattoos – now completely visible – and we talked body modification.

Stephen and Jeffery certainly deserved relief, and in front of Julia and myself, masturbated each other to climax. It was very erotic and an event which I hope to recall more completely one day.

After this display of mutual masturbation Julia said that she’d found the time no less arousing than we had and that sometimes it’s forgotten that women are just as stimulated, so she was going to complete her climax as well. She said that she would enjoy it if we watched her and opened her legs to reveal her own arousal. Given that she was so perfectly shaved her entire area was beautifully visible. Jeffery massaged her feet as we sat on the floor – he knew her body – as she digitally stimulated herself to climax. A great ending.

Stephen has told me that Julia and Jeffery are continuing to build a strong client base at the hotel spa – no complaints. I’m hoping to make a visit myself soon and that we’ll all get together again soon.

I’m still at the apartment with Stephen a few doors down. We’re having so much fun and have become great friends, sharing so many new experiences, now.

 More another time.





Safe Space

Safe Space

The search for safe and intimate comfort can be challenging.

The possibilities and choices to find such comfort can seem to be frustratingly limited.

The occasional enjoyment of bodywork and massage is satisfying but often all too brief.

As acceptance grows that, as individuals, our sexual and sensual identities are broad and legitimate, so, also, do the opportunities to enjoy and actualize seem frustratingly narrow.

While the virtual world of internet and keyboard driven images can help in beginning to focus preferences, it’s not an environment that makes it easy to discretely  and safely enjoy one’s newly discovered ‘self’ in the physical world.

The virtual world simply does not reciprocate the energy pounded into the keyboard.

This year, more than ever, opportunities have emerged that have allowed visitors, here, to take the time, safely and openly, to explore and enjoy aspects of their sensuality that are, all too often, difficult to express in less open contexts.

The chance to laze and gaze in a shared and non-judgmental environment, where no clock is ticking, is difficult to discover.

While it shouldn’t be so difficult to find comfortable space to share thoughts and preferences, when sensual self discovery is the goal the choices can be very limited.

I’ve heard this frequently over the past couple of years from wonderful visitors who have returned to share and spend extended overnight visits.

Such visits have provided a chance to temporarily exclude the outside world and often to actualize thoughts and newly discovered preferences – to build confidence and bring new peace of mind.

While this will always be a place of timeless massage it can also be a place of endless sensuality, self expression, company and comfort.

Beats any impersonal hotel, airbnb or website.

Just email or call to enjoy.


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The Deepest Massage & Touch Experiences


 Always are Voyages of Arousal and Discovery.

The very personal experience of enjoying Tantric Touch and Massage is always enhanced when combined with a desire to explore existing boundaries and comfort levels.

A safe and reassuring way to begin is to explore past experiences and imagine future experiences – in other words:  Heightening Personal Sensual Awareness.

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Stephen’s Massage Model

relaxHere’s the first part of the conclusion to the massage experience emailed by my reader:

‘…………..Jeffery said it was now time to ‘get to work’ and that I should get onto the table. I climbed on, face down, adjusting my still erect cock between the table and my belly. I could feel the leaked pre-cum against my skin and tried to distract myself to avoid any premature ejaculation. It wasn’t going to be easy and I realized that Jeffery’s purpose was very much to assist Julia in learning techniques that would assist with these energies. I began to feel that I was also going to gain much benefit from Jeffery’s instruction to Julia. 

To be continued……………..’

As I settled myself on the massage table Jeffery asked whether I was comfortable. I was. I was lying on soft towels and my face was comfortably supported by an opening in the table enabling me to lie comfortably in a face down position. I found myself looking at the hardwood floor of my apartment lounge as I lay on the table.

Jeffery said that he would hand over the direction of the massage to Julia and he would guide her in methods that would fit with the spa’s massage protocols and at the same time enable a relaxing massage. He said that the most common issue was working with clients who were sexually aroused throughout the massage. The rules didn’t permit therapists to directly acknowledge or deliberately stimulate arousal but his experience was that nearly all males found the energy and context of the massage sensually arousing. That fact had to be accepted and in a way that allowed the client to relax and the therapist to feel comfortable.

He said that this was such a good opportunity to pass on to Julia the techniques that were working for him in a ‘hands on’ and ‘explicit’ style. He added that because I was so clearly aroused I was the ideal client model for these purposes. He said that Julia would role-play her position at work. He reminded that this would be more fun than at the spa because we were all working naked. Julia normally would not be nude for the massage. He joked that the concession was in lieu of overtime. Then he handed things over to Julia.

Julia began by whispering in my ear that she hoped that I was comfortable and that she would be covering me with a sheet. As she leaned over, close to the table to whisper I could see her bare feet beneath the table as I gazed at the floor. The image and her closeness had much to do with my continued arousal and I shifted on the table, feeling myself, again, close to ejaculation.

Julia sensed my tension and moved away to find the sheet and give me time to recover control.

She immediately returned and I felt the draft of the sheet as she spread it over me. Fully draped she began quickly stroking my body over the sheet and as she stroked she displaced the sheet, exposing me once again. I experienced a powerful sensual energy as the sheet moved against my body and as Julia allowed it to drift into the space between my thighs and finally over my feet.

Now that I was once again uncovered, Julia grasped both of my feet and opened my legs to the width of the table. The touch to my feet, and re-positioning of my legs, brief as it was, was again so stimulating. I was beginning to realize how erotically stimulating this entire process would be and how important it was for therapists to be able to work with these levels of energy.

I sensed that had Julia moved away. She quickly returned and I felt warm oil being drifted over my shoulders and back, followed by Julia’s fingers confidently massaging muscles that I didn’t know I had. She progressed toward my butt, spreading the oil as she massaged. By now I was struggling to remain aware and in control of myself but as she began to work my inner thighs I found myself shifting and lifting my hips causing Julia’s fingers to momentarily touch my cock and balls.

At this point Julia said to Jeffery that she could now do with some help. My movement on the table was entirely common and very often the client would stretch out to touch her and try to encourage more intimate touch.

Julia’s question was about how to keep things on track.

attentionJeffery moved over to Julia’s side of the table and pushed down on my butt, pressing me to the table more firmly than Julia had done. When he released his pressure I found myself rising again from the table. Jeffery invited Julia to copy his move and this time I felt Julia push into my butt cheeks more firmly, returning me to more complete contact with the table. Of course I remained erect and aroused.

Jeffery said to Julia that the intent was always to find the balance between keeping the client comfortable and happy and keeping within the rules. He said the technique he uses at this point is to concentrate on each thigh, massaging the entire thigh in a hugging movement. To demonstrate he slipped his arm underneath my thigh and carefully pulled my leg into a position away from the table. The effect was to lift my hips and genital area from the table as he encircled my thigh with his arms.

As he used the pressure of his grip to knead my thigh he moved his arm grip so that his upper arm was closely pushed against my genitals and between my legs. So I experienced contact to my cock entirely in the context of the massage movement. Jeffery held this position for some time allowing me to enjoy the sensation of pushing my cock against his arm. He could feel my energy was getting close to ejaculation and released my leg, returning it to the table.

He asked Julia if she’d been able to observe and that the client – me –  had been able to make sensual and intimate contact with the therapist as part of a legitimate massage technique. He said that on occasion the move proved too powerful for the client to resist ejaculation and that there had been many times when he withdrew with the clients release on his arm. The spa rules had no problem with this ‘accidental’ client release.

He suggested to Julia to use my other thigh to practice. She moved to the other side of the table and copied Jeffery’s moves. Her grip and touch were different from Jeffery’s but just as arousing. I think the difference in their height made a difference. Julia used more of her upper body in encircling and gripping my thigh. She was quite accurate in gauging when I was getting close to releasing and returned my leg to the table before I was tipped over the edge.

The massage continued with a combination of muscle and Swedish massage touch as she moved down my legs and toward my feet. The massage to my feet was as stimulating as any of the attention I’d received so far and by now it seemed that all touch had the effect of maintaining my arousal for the longest time.

The time came to turn over. Jeffery said to Julia that in these situations it was most common for the client to be aroused and he joked that I would certainly not be an exception. He said that as a male practitioner male clients were often concerned that their erection and energy would be an ambiguous indication of their sexual orientation. His rule was always to allow any male client to feel entirely comfortable about revealing their erection to another male. It was enough that throughout the massage they had enjoyed the genital contact which, by using the thigh grip technique allowed the client to create and develop the level of contact comfort that they preferred. Some clients were not experiencing the massage sensually. That was entirely good. At this time we were concentrating on the majority who did seek to enjoy the most complete touch that the rules might allow.

Julia said that also her male clients usually were hard when they turned over and that she felt that the erections were really related to responses to the touch and spa context rather than sexual orientation. She said that now that she had the thigh grip in her repertoire she would know more about the comfort levels of the client before turning them over.

I was still face down on the table during this conversation. I was in another world. I’d completely forgotten that I was actually in my own apartment. Looking back on this visit, the power of this physical and sensual energy seems so perfect. I felt so fortunate to meet Stephen, who shared so many of my interests and thoughts, in such a convenient and fun way. I couldn’t have wished for a better neighbour.

So I turned over at Julia’s direction. Of course, in the process I suddenly reverted to my self conscious self. It’s so crazy because we’d all become very comfortable and I had spent the past hour being touched and massaged in the most intimate ways. As has happened on many occasions Stephen seemed to anticipate or notice my concern. As I turned my erection was very active and instinctively I moved my hand to cover myself. Quite absurd. Stephen joked to Jeffery and Julia that I would be a model client of propriety if I was at their spa. Julia responded that she loved seeing this – it showed that she was doing her job.

I looked around, enjoying being reminded that we were all naked and having fun, combined with some useful intent. I took a deep breath again and allowed my arousal to be free and settled on my back on the table. Julia propped my head with a pillow and I prepared for what I imagined would be the more complicated part of interpreting the spa rules.

The final massage description will follow.








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