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Mindful Massage & Sensual Escape

Tantric massage is a conscious, sensual,  full body experience.

It’s a flow of positive energy enjoyed in a warm and safe environment.

It’s a space where the clock and the phone can be turned off. Where the shower can be long. Where the direction is relaxed, genuine and personal.

This is unrushed time that allows a slow and mindful experience of heightened awareness. It’s time away from reality where relaxation and re-discovery are possible.

To find out more  please do read further in the blog and call or email.

Tel: 250-984-7051 or email: co.lins@outlook.com

Colin 

To Touch or not to Touch?

To Touch or not to Touch?

Here’s a question that is often spoken – and often unspoken. ‘Is it OK to touch while I’m receiving touch?’

The guiding principle in massage is to work toward total relaxation of the mind and body. To the extent that uncertainty can occupy and stress the mind it is important to put this question to rest and thus rest the mind.

The short answer is ideally –  Yes – exchange of touch is entirely OK.

Massage can have the effect of seeming to magnify our natural energy. As the massage progresses and the mind starts to relax and wander the body will energize physically and some of that energy will begin to flow to the relaxed mind. It’s natural to want to reach out and transfer some of that energy. In doing so the energy delivered in the massage is further enhanced.

The fact is that energy is built as much by touching as by being touched. Without receiving touch or having the opportunity to touch we are deprived of a critical part of our experiential potential.

Of course it is entirely acceptable and possible to enjoy a full body massage without exploring reciprocal touch.

When we imagine traveling further down the Tantric path, however, it’s important to clear any imaginary barriers. Tantric practice and massage allows touch and touching, seeing and being seen, feeling and being felt. It is true that receiving touch to relax the mind also often extends to giving touch. Both experiences are the product of the same energy.

So, while so many full body massage techniques provide a wonderfully relaxing and stimulating experience, Tantric massage is one of the few that recognizes that complete relaxation requires the engagement of our potential to distribute energy as well as receive it.

Tantric massage will always acknowledge the power of interaction, looking to find the most complete and relaxed state of mind and body.

Email:  co.lins@outlook.com or subscribe to this site.

Tel: 250-984-7051

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Differences & Distinctions

Often a question is asked about the difference between Tantric massage, relaxing massage, full body massage, erotic massage, therapeutic massage etc.

In truth it is likely that there are as many definitions and answers as there are practitioners. Still, it’s a fair question.

Definitions and descriptions of massage ‘techniques’ e.g. Swedish, Lomi Lomi, Thai, Reiki etc. can easily be researched and described definitively but defining ‘relaxing’ in massage is more subjective.

Any relaxing massage experience is hopefully designed to be a pleasant experience, but what of the question defining the descriptions of – relaxing – erotic – Tantric. Isn’t it all the same?

Happily it is normal to experience a relaxing massage as an erotic experience even if it’s not ‘full body’. Simple touch, in the right circumstance can be incredibly and surprisingly erotic. Certainly a ‘full body’ relaxing massage, is likely to result in an erotic experience.

Tantric massage sessions tend to be longer than simple full body relaxation massage. Perhaps Tantric massage is best defined as a shared journey, where natural energy and reactions are mutually enjoyed by both receiver and giver.

There is always a ‘safe landing’ and the effects of the experience can last for many days afterwards.

In Tantric massage the experience is always about the journey without undue focus on the destination. Relaxation massage, erotic massage, full body massage, therapeutic massage, Tantric massage, combinations of all – it’s all good.

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Time & Tantra

Time & Tantra

Tantric practice encourages the idea of an ‘experience’ rather than a ‘session’, whether or not the time is in massage, ritual, discovery or any combination of Tantric practice.

Such experience is timeless – in that the experience tends to find its own unique pace and is not necessarily divided into hourly segments.

For this reason ‘clock watching’ is not part of Tantric experience. The idea is to provide an experience to relax the mind and body and thereby raise physical consciousness and heighten awareness. How this develops in any individual will be unique to the moment and certainly the benefit can be defeated by watching the clock too closely. That’s not to say that time constraints are not a reality to be respected at times. Just that experiences, short or long, need not necessarily be measured by the clock.

If Tantric practice requires anything from followers, those requirements, at least, are an open and curious mind and a generosity of spirit. So we always approach experiential time with generosity not measured by hours and minutes.

Sometimes the experience will last long – other times it maybe shorter.  Always, though, it will be a unique experience – never a ‘timed session’.  We don’t always have to make the massage ‘run on time’!

Colin

Questions/Comments:

Tel:           250-984-7051

Email:     co.lins@outlook.com

 

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Massage & Tantric practice – some thoughts

Researching the term Tantra and Tantric Massage will reveal more than 11 million references. It’s a word that excites curiosity and somehow suggests forbidden fruit. Thus it’s a term much abused. Also a term much defined.

Certainly Massage can be enjoyed as a Tantric experience. Here are a few thoughts to explain and heighten awareness.

Tantra can be defined as a term that describes an understanding of life.

Life is a manifestation of energy and we are individual bundles of energy.

All too often we are confused in experiencing the mix of energies within us, leading to an imbalance of thought and deed.

Tantric massage can offer a way to balance and enjoy intellectual and physical possibilities more reliably and pleasurably.

There are some energy forces in life that are often ignored. Ignoring these can create misunderstandings and stresses that can trap us.

Tantra is one of the few life concepts that clearly recognizes that erotic and sexual energy is the most powerful energy force within human kind. Without sexual energy – no more humans!!

And yet we find endless ways to distort, control, deny and subvert sexual energy. In doing so we create individual and social stresses than lead entirely to a misdirection of energy.

Tantra speaks of  7  Chakras – energy centers – in every human being. Recognizing and honoring those centers raises our consciousness and begins to bring some intellectual understanding to the forces that are within us.

Tantric practice can be imagined and experienced as a route to finding pleasure and comfort in oneself. In this way relaxation and energy balance can be achieved. Finding a comfort level internally is the first step to sharing energy and comfort with others.

In the beginning we accept that raising consciousness of pleasurable energy is necessary and desirable. Our normal state is often to deny that which is pleasurable in ourselves. This is a displacement of energy and leads to stress.

Massage and Tantric practice can help to allay fears and uncertainties.

It is also ideally gender and orientation neutral. The experiences are intense and can find energies that are latent or unexplored.

Whatever a person’s sexual orientation, there is a strong likelihood Tantric practice and massage will raise sexual consciousness. Tantric practice entirely understands this. The purpose is to find individual comfort levels and slowly develop and explore those energies. The most important energy to bring to the table is the energy of an open mind.

Tantric Massage and practice is a journey of self discovery. Sexual orientation and gender is of little consequence when the raising of any energy center is properly performed.

What is learned and experienced will remain throughout life and it is this enhancement of thought and pleasure that Tantric practice and massage can bring.

To talk more or to visit:

Contact Colin at: 250-984-7051

email:co.lins@outlook.com

A New World to Explore

Taste MeA New World to Explore

Tantric exploration lives in the real world. It is always an opportunity to heighten awareness of our unique and individual realities.
At the same time our understanding and sharing of the ways in which others experience the world always enhances our self awareness.
With this purpose in mind this virtual link – https://vimeo.com/alwaysintouch – (it’s a safe but explicit link) will connect to a collection of videos and artistic statements that will raise consciousness and inform how others express and experience reality and sensuality – in artistic performance, both private and public.
The videos are varied in theme and are often explicit/NSFW in content. The collection is intended as an experiential opportunity.
The collection is not intended to endorse or persuade. It is intended to arouse thought and feelings. Sometimes the images might uncover levels of consciousness previously unexplored. Thoughts and comments are welcome, particularly when any content inspires Tantric experience and energy.

Colin
Email: co.lins@outlook.com
Tel: 250-984-7051
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Massage & Group Experiences

Circle - CopyMassage & Group Experiences

I received this email from a reader who has recently moved to the area.

He describes his Tantric and massage experiences and is continuing them now that he has moved.

His thoughts seem to express experiences and ideas that so many people have little opportunity to actualize. He did call me and has visited. I’m posting his email with his permission and with thanks to him for describing his journey so far.

Tantra is about safely sharing energy, and that energy can often be experienced, enhanced and enjoyed in small groups and intimate Tantric gatherings.

Colin
250-984-7051

 

From: xxxxxxxx@shaw.ca
To: co.lins@outlook.com

 

Hello Colin,
You don’t know me and I’ve been reading your blog for some time now.
I’ve recently moved to your area from Toronto and have been looking for something to replace the tantric massage classes and visits that have worked well for me before I moved and maybe you can help.
I’m a 52 yearold male suffering from work stresses and general lack of attention. Two years ago I was surfing the web one evening looking for ways to relax without tearing my life apart. I came across a guy describing tantric massage as a way to relax and safely experience some human contact and touch.
I made contact with him and over a few months made visits for massage. I also learned more about tantra and its roots and possibilities. Around that time I also found your blog which seemed to describe a lot of what I was experiencing with my local practitioner so I saved your contact information until now.
I became very comfortable with my Toronto practitioner and the opportunities to visit him, and shedding my clothes seemed also to have the effect of shedding some of the stresses of my work. Of course the touch and massage helped.
I won’t get into much detail here but after a few visits my practitioner suggested I become more familiar with tantric possibilities and that he had other clients who would like to share and exchange their experiences with others and would I like to attend small group gatherings. He said that it wasn’t something that would appeal to everybody but things I’d said suggested I might enjoy the experiences and company of others who enjoy tantra and its energy.
I trusted his thinking and visited his studio one weekend and was introduced to 2 other guys who were of similar age and circumstances to myself. We enjoyed a relaxing couple of hours after introducing ourselves. They’d both been receiving tantric massage for some time and we quickly discovered that we were motivated by very similar needs in looking to find some pleasure in touch and tantric techniques.
We also found that we shared the same enjoyment of the clothes free opportunities that tantra stimulates and its chances to freely and safely engage with similar energies.
I continued to visit for massage and also enjoyed the group visits when they could be arranged.
I’m happy to have moved but am looking to pick up where I left off and wondered whether you can provide or suggest anything similar to what I’ve described.
I hope to meet you one day.
(Name withheld)

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