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Barefoot themes – continued

I’ve had many emails asking about the Foot Massage visit and Robert’s email. I also received this email from one of the other visitors. It explains more, from another participant, and, at his request I’m posting it for the extra information it provides.
The energy and setting for gatherings like this are very personal. We’re sharing so much of ourselves, mentally and physically. While the theme of this event was the pleasure of foot bathing and massage exchange, in many ways the planned theme often becomes the catalyst for other openings and explorations as comfort levels progress.
As Boz mentions, Robert’s energy and comfort in quickly, partially undressing, was immediately felt in the room.
Certainly familiarity with full body Tantric massage helps in exploring ways to find the full potentials of any group theme. On this occasion, the care that was taken by everyone to exchange and enjoy the sensuality of the theme, led to experiences that are unique to Tantric practice.
In other words, although this massage theme initially focused on the sensual potential of foot bathing and massage, the opportunities quickly moved imaginations beyond the naked foot. Future themes will detail the many other sensual possibilities of the Tantric body.
Thank you to all have have contacted on this topic. Feel welcome to continue to write and express whatever thoughts you might like to send.
Colin
Email:             co.lins@outlook.com
Telephone:     250-984-7051
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From: Boz <pu….@shaw.ca>
Sent: Sunday, January 26, 2020 8:19 PM
To: Colin . <co.lins@outlook.com>
Subject: Foot massage group
Colin – that was such an affirming email from Robert. Boz here – your long time visitor from faraway Victoria, lol.
I just wanted to say that everything that Robert said were my feelings as well. Robert had come by bus and walked in the rain. His umbrella hadn’t protected him from the puddles, hahaha, so the cuffs of his pants were soaked so it was natural to take them off to dry them anyway and that fitted so well with the theme of the group.
I never met him before, or Alan, the other visitor in the group, who was also a pleasure to meet.
The thing was that it was so unexpectedly exciting when Robert arrived, to be introduced and then watch him almost immediately take off his wet shoes and pants. Alan and I were already barefoot and getting to know each other when Robert arrived but we were still a bit cautious and you were careful to allow time and space to move the group energy.
Seeing Robert feel so comfortable removing his pants and socks so immediately – even though he did so partly because they were soaked –  seemed such a signal of our shared energy and like a permission to become even more personal or comfortable.
Without wearing pants it also made it so much easier to share and use the foot bath, lol. and for Alan and me to feel comfortable also removing our pants.
I think we all soon enjoyed just being able to sit back and relax to experience massage and bathing and also giving that experience to each other.
I just wanted to say that the visit seemed to give an extra dimension to massage, as I normally experience it. It was such a pleasure to enjoy the visual energy of this little group. I’ll never stop visiting for massage which is part of my life but I wanted you to know this was a very appreciated extra experience.
I found it so comforting to find that at least 3 other total strangers – we’re not anymore, lol – can so quickly share similar energies and tastes. I think we all were not in a rush to get dressed again when it was getting time to leave, lol.
I’d really love to write more but I’d like you to publish this on your blog, with Robert’s email and I don’t want to include much more detail so that the email can’t be published.
I think we all look forward to the next group visit and to the next theme, or even a repeat of this one.
Thanks, Colin.
Boz
From: Robert <ro….@gmail.com>
Sent: Saturday, January 25, 2020 3:09 PM
To: Colin . <co.lins@outlook.com>
Subject: Foot massage group

Hey Colin, I’ve just got to thank you for arranging the group meeting this week. It was such a friendly and personal experience. I found the 2 other guys and me had so much in common. Of course we were all known to you individually but I do think you put in much care to make it a perfect group.
The idea to make the event around exchanging foot massage worked so well. There was something so comfortable and sensual about exchanging touch in this way. Outside the weather was so bad so arriving to meet you and the others in a warm, friendly and familiar place was such a contrast to things outside. And to feel comfortable just taking off my shoes and socks and my wet jeans and warming my feet and getting such a casual but beautiful touch from new acquaintances was just what I needed.
Although I was the last to arrive I felt immediately welcome and completely comfortable even though the others were already well connected.
This gathering has opened a whole new level of excitement for me. Without getting into detail, as you know we all found a new dimension to massage touch and not just to our feet. It was such fun to sit around so comfortably and share so much.
I hope you can make this happen again soon and that you’ll invite me again. I’m still dreaming.
Go ahead and add this to your blog and I hope others can enjoy the same energy.
Robert

Foot Massage Gathering

Your email is so kind, Robert. It was such an easy and low-key gathering. Everybody had fun and has asked that we repeat soon. The important thing in all such gatherings is that we are able to relax and enjoy without the pressure of complicated expectations. That the energy can develop slowly and comfortably.
In offering the simple opportunity to enjoy the sensuality and relaxation of foot massage, doors are opened even more widely to explore so much more of ourselves.
The communal foot bath and massage that Robert describes was very much a catalyst that enabled the opportunity to share so many thoughts and imaginings with others who share common energies.
Although in this event we all enjoyed the foot massage exchange it would have been equally pleasurable to simply experience and absorb the energy of the gathering without participating in the massage.
I will continue to arrange groups and gatherings and there will be other themes that can provide similar opportunities for communal touch and exchange.
If you have any thoughts about group approaches please feel so welcome to send an email and describe what you have in mind so that others might enjoy with you.
Colin
Email:             co.lins@outlook.com
Telephone:     250-984-7051

 


From: Robert . <ro….@gmail.com>
Sent: Saturday, January 25, 2020 3:09 PM
To: Colin . <co.lins@outlook.com>
Subject: Foot massage group

Hey Colin, I’ve just got to thank you for arranging the group visit this week. It was such a friendly and personal experience. I found the 2 other guys and me had so much in common. We all knew you individually but I do think you put in much care to make it a perfect group.
The idea to make the event around exchanging foot massage worked so well. and was so non-threatening. There was something so comfortable and sensual about exchanging touch in this way. Outside the weather was so bad so arriving to meet you and the others in a friendly and familiar place was such a contrast to things outside. And to feel comfortable just taking off my shoes and socks and my wet jeans and warming my feet and getting such casual and beautiful touch, and immediate welcome from new acquaintances was just what I needed.
Although I was the last to arrive I felt immediately welcome and completely comfortable even though the others were already well settled.
This gathering has opened a whole new level of excitement for me. Without getting into detail, as you know we all found a new dimension to massage touch and not just to our feet. It was such fun to sit around so comfortably and share so much.
I hope you can make this happen again soon and that you’ll invite me again. I’m still dreaming.
Go ahead and add this to your blog and I hope others can enjoy the same energy.
Robert

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Comfortable Company

Comfortable Company

Time taken for personal relaxation and exploration is so valuable in these, often, challenging times.

Personal relaxation time can restore the energy and imagination lost in the machinery of the daily grind.

Any opportunity to relax the body and also the mind is a chance to rest or divert thinking.

Toward fulfilling the objective of personal comfort and mental diversion please also take comfort in the knowledge that this time is respected as personal and discreet.

To this purpose please know the following if you are communicating for the first time.

I am always pleased to receive and to try and answer the questions you will have. The best way, initially, to communicate is via a telephone call or a simple email of interest and introduction. From there we can arrange a time for a telephone conversation.

All communication – telephone and email – is always confidential. Your communication is a point of entry into a less stressful world that does not have a purpose or technology to intrude or ‘over-share’.

For visitors who have previously visited this island of relaxation, your time and visits are forever valued.

For those who are imagining and seeking answers – please do contact with the confidence that your call is always valued and respected with discretion.

Colin

Tel: 250-984-7051   Email: co.lins@outlook.com

Erotic Choices

Erotic Choices

These remarks perhaps move outside conventional Tantric definitions but are nonetheless relevant when considering how to enjoy a maximum of erotic stimulation.

Tantric massage, in its simplest forms, provides incredible sensual stimulation but it isn’t always available. There are other options, however, that can fill the gaps in between massages, and even become a ‘way of life’ in themselves.

Heightened sensual awareness and erotic stimulation can become a 24/7 experience, constructively blended with regular day to day activity.

It’s just a question of allowing imagination to do its work and not being afraid to actualize and experiment. The trick is to remember that there are many ways to experience personal sensual potential.

Begin to think about what heightens sensual awareness when alone. Self touch and masturbation is enjoyed by most people but is often approached with little conscious awareness.

Conscious self touch, or ‘mindful masturbation’ is a gateway to exploring a much broader potential. Many people work to lengthen and elaborate their solo experiences – start to be conscious of sensual self touch beyond simple genital stimulation. Expand consciousness and sensitization of more body zones.

Mentally associate such ‘distant’ touch with genital stimulation. Very easily it will be possible to find that touch to an unrelated body region will result in deep sensual stimulation. Take your time.

This is the beginning of heightened sensory awareness.

An easy example might be sensations to the feet. We tend to ignore the foot as an erogenous zone, often because convention and practicalities don’t provide much opportunity to use the erotic potential of the foot.

Take every opportunity to be barefoot. Wear shoes that can be slipped off easily and don’t wear socks. Be always aware that erotic sensitivity can be heightened whenever you slip off your shoes.

When sitting use the opportunity to stimulate the feet on the carpet or floor, discreetly. Previous practice associating genital stimulation with foot stimulation it will soon make it possible to raise sensual awareness in ordinary situations without moving immediately to the crotch! Often others will also begin to associate and enjoy the discrete energy.

This is obviously a very simple example – socially safe but full of opportunity. Practice can lead to foot fetishes of all forms – and so can begin a lifestyle.

The same ideas can apply to all other parts of the body – some easier to engage socially than others.

There’s nothing particularly new in discussing these ideas but often the erotic connection is not consciously understood when we seek to enjoy or enhance our bodies.

For example is jewelry worn to please the wearer or the observer? How personal should and can jewelry be?

Earrings are a common adornment, and unremarkable, but it is interesting to explore more deeply, the purpose and potentials of body piercing. Piercings and jewelry can have a clear erotic purpose for the wearer, transmitting that erotic energy to an observer. Additionally piercings can now be very much more visible on body parts that used to be considered too personal to expose.

Tongue and navel piercings are now commonplace and highly visible. It’s possible to practice to associate these areas with erotic self stimulation. Genital piercings and jewelry for males and females are less obvious but are a constant physical stimulation which can be converted into erotic stimulation 24/7. The feel of steel in and against skin and flesh is one of the most erotic stimulants known to many people.

Nipple piercings have a special place in the world of erotic experience.

The male nipple, which carries less social and sexual baggage than the female nipple, is a centre of nerve endings that can easily be developed as a fast track connection to erotic heightened awareness.

Even for those who do not find their nipples particularly sensitive to erotic touch and stimulation, with some practice it becomes very possible to use the nipple as a primary erogenous zone. Some shirt fabrics can stimulate the nipple very effectively at every movement, again providing sustained erotic energy.

It’s easy to understand how constant engagement and attention to these body parts can be considered ‘kinky’ or ‘fetish’. But that is not a reason to deny the sensual and sexual potential. It’s a way of opening the energy of the mind and body to its full potential.

Moving to a bigger canvass, the nude human body can be the most powerful initial stimulant.

Unfortunately modern society often makes it very difficult to enjoy the sensual and sexual potential energy of a naked form, either solo or in company.

Nudity in advertising is expressed all the time but this is one of the instances where the implied message is ‘don’t try this in real life’. It’s suggested that reality may not measure up to the airbrushed magazine images.

But of course it can be stimulating and erotic to be naked, especially among others, and to see others naked.

To a greater or lesser extent we’re all potential voyeurs or exhibitionists.

Many kink and fetish environments allow and encourage nudity for entirely erotic, sensual and sexual potentials.

To enjoy the feeling of the exposed body, complete with the unhidden sexual energy of piercings, make-up, jewelry etc., or entirely unadorned, is a powerful statement and invitation to understand that it’s good to be aware of and in control of the physical body. That it can be good to demonstrate physically what is going on mentally.

Taken as a lifestyle interest, solo and communal nudity can be an enjoyable and powerful ‘fetish’ that is positive and can live in the mind 24/7.

As the physical and mental connections are developed and become part of life, rather than simply reserved for ‘special occasions’, so it becomes increasingly possible to test boundaries and try experiences that at one time seemed too strange.

Now it is possible to be in environments where everybody can be understood as simply enjoying erotic stimulation for its own relaxation and erotic effects. An ‘audience’ is not particularly a necessity. The activities are for the satisfaction of the individual but often an ‘audience’ can enhance the personal experience.

Perhaps the primary message is to welcome and encourage fantasy. There is much energy to be found in dungeon play, BDSM, communal nudity, cross dressing, oil wrestling, tattoos, piercings, foot worship, mindful solo masturbation, communal masturbation, performance art, naked ritual etc. The possibilities are endless, limited only by imagination.

‘Fetishes and kinks’ are positive possibilities. It’s possible to enjoy many or just a few but practice does offer the chance to enhance and enjoy erotic energy when the massage table isn’t available.

Always feel welcome to email or call on this general topic. The ideal is always to encourage sensual and sexual awareness and to use this raised consciousness to enjoy all aspects of sexual life.

Colin

Tel: 250-984-7051                          Email: co.lins@outlook.com

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Heightened Awareness

Heightened Awareness

To invite and experience Tantric Massage can often be an act of courage. Always it is an act of trust.

One true purpose of Tantra is to bring forth energies that lie dormant and to allow those energies to distribute and flow in unique and personal ways.

The effects and experiences can be powerful and ‘electric’ in so many ways. Tantric massage experiences can raise sensual consciousness and awareness to new levels.

Each journey is a unique experience and can frequently include the expectation of the unknown, if that is possible.

It is the process of becoming comfortable with, and conscious of the intensity of the unexplored sensual and sexual possibilities contained in all of us, that fulfills the mission of Tantric Practice.

Exploring these possibilities requires a willingness and ability to open the mind and body unreservedly.

Massage can and should be experienced both passively and actively. In Tantra there is an opportunity to learn how to become conscious of how pleasure is working on the mind. There is a conditioning in today’s life to believe that there is always a division between intellectual consciousness and physical/sexual/sensual consciousness.

Tantric Practice says that there should be no such ‘firewall’. That sexual and sensual experience, if consciously experienced, is not only enhanced but can become ever more part of  intellectual consciousness.

Tantric Practice provides, if nothing else, unusual opportunities to ask and to experience.

Quite soon along the Tantric journey questions arise. Intense arousal and energy have been experienced and often a desire is seeded to wish to repeat and enhance intensity. How to do that is a fundamental question. How does it all work?

The truth is that whatever mode of stimulation has been useful at any time is the correct mode. It’s logical to proceed from there.

Tantric Practice is about the distribution and use of physical and mental energy in sexual and sensual forms.

Tantric Practice encourages the exploration of becoming consciously aware of thoughts and practuces that bring pleasure.

Massage is often the beginning of Tantric Practice because it provides an entirely legitimate reason to receive and explore touch.

This is always a great sensual experience and a fine beginning but the likelihood is that it’s a passive experience. To move further along the Tantric path there is much enhancement to be found in becoming actively conscious of how the body and mind are processing and enjoying.

Ceremony and ritual often feature at this stage but to move too quickly can take things beyond natural comfort zones.

A quiet intermediate introduction stage can be very helpful, prior to ritual and group experiences.

This is the time to find the physical self. We know ourselves as a private image. We present the image that we believe matches the circumstance. While these choices may be entirely correct they are, nonetheless, private choices and incomplete, and the image of how we appear is our private image – an image in our head. How we may be perceived by others is not always accurately known to us.

In Tantrc Practice it’s necessary to make the ‘private’ image, ‘public’ in a sense. That is to say that we want to start to consciously enjoy the actuality of our complete physical being and to share the possibilities that we normally keep private.

So, where the desire is to supplement the massage experience with Tantric Practice please never hesitate to ask how best to move along the Tantric path. There are experiences to be had and enjoyed that combine well with the energy that Tantric massage produces.

Colin                                       

Tel: 250-984-7051                  Email: co.lins@outlook.com

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Imagine Realizing the Perfect Fantasy

IMAGINE REALIZING THE PERFECT FANTASY

Last year so many people wrote and called with ideas and preferences that they imagined including and experiencing when visiting.

These thoughts have been so instructive and revealing – and so much fun to explore.

In this New Year of 2019, whether you are a previous visitor or curious about a first time visit, if you have a particular thought about what you’d like to enjoy, or how to add to your experience, please email or call and share your imaginings. Whenever possible your thought can be the reality of your visit.

Tantric practice and massage provides the opportunity to share and enjoy so many fantasies, and there are so many to enjoy. The thought is always to make a more perfect visit.

The clock is turned off and the space is yours to fill.

So this year practice being true to your imagination and enjoy the energy of fantastic self expression – or simply lay back, empty your mind and relax.

Tel:         250-984-7051

Email:     co.lins@outlook.com

 

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